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Pro- Choice was a joke to me,
I learned that when I was young.

I myself was pregnant,
when I heard that word, it stung.

I was seventeen, a reckless young girl,
who with the love of my life, thought I could take the world.

But I was wrong, as I soon found out,
I had no idea, what life was really about.

There was suddenly this pain coursing through my stomach,
this thing was inside of me, and at first I didn't want it.

I talked to my 'boy friend', the one who I thought loved me,
but he left when he found out, he found another woman to cling.

I was all by myself with this leech in my system,
but I still didn't want it, can't they see that I’m the victim?

My parents understood, as well as my friends,
So I would get an abortion, no guilt I felt then.

The abortion clinic was small, it felt rather nice,
though the AC blew, it made me as cold as ice.

I scheduled an appointment, for the same time next week
I left the clinic, feeling a heavy weight upon my feet.

I went to the park just to stop and be alone,
then I saw a little boy, throwing his dog a bone.

He had the brightest blue eyes, the shone like the sun
I wondered if my child would be as cute as that one.

I later made a choice, before the week was up,
that I would keep the thing inside of me, it was my fault I fucked.

Yes, it was my fault as much as it was his,
but he wasn't there, so blaming him was pointless.

I knew the risk of having a child at a young age,
but this was a chance I felt I couldn't toss away.

I told mother and father that I planned to support myself,
that I would keep the child, with or without their help.

I told my friends as well, but the judged me too,
as did my parents, they disagreed with the news.

People started to hate me, they called me a slut,
they said I slept around, that I loved to get fucked.

The baby started to show, and things went to hell,
my mother and father hated me, in silence I could tell.

Teachers and staff ignored me, I think they called me dumb,
the hatred was painful, but it only had begun.

I wanted to keep the child, it was my choice was it not?
So why did they force me, to get that lethal painful shot?

I was Pro-choice, because I wanted to keep that life,
but they told me to kill it, they told me it was my right.

The abortion was successful and things went back to normal,
people were my friends again, we were casual not formal.

My dad went back to calling me his special little girl,
my mom still joked how I thought I ruled the world.

I was Pro-Choice, because I thought I had my own mind,
that I could control the life, that was growing from the inside.

But I guess I was wrong, because I’ve seen the hate.
When you decide to choose life, when you pick your own fate.

I’d like to really thank everyone for the feedback, especially those who voiced their opinions, but in a respectable way! I had no idea this would be a Daily Devation, but I am so happy!

Let me just clarify I few things.

    1.       The girl mentioned in the poem is not me, nor is the scenario one I have experienced. However, things like this happen all the time. A girl is forced into an abortion and I wanted to bring that to light.

    2.       I am not Pro-Choice. I am strongly against abortion.

    3.       I am a woman, before you call me out for being sexist.

Thanks again everyone! 

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Daily Deviation

Given 2014-08-26
Pro-Choice by Yamiga takes a different approach on the popular abortion topic.  It's not often we hear the stories of women forced into abortion by those they should be able to trust in having their back. ( Suggested by bryosgirl and Featured by GrimFace242 )
:icondragonofevil:
DragonOfEvil Featured By Owner Edited Sep 9, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
I'm pro-choice.
If I was parent (which won't happen) I would give my child the choice to either abort or adopt. Because in my mind a teenage girl has no business raising a child. I'd want my daughter to focus on school and her social life and enjoy her young life, and not spend it stressing out over a child and ending up dropping out of school and no longer having the time to be with her friends. That's just me though.
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:iconyamiga:
Yamiga Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2014  Student Writer
There's always adoption. She wouldn't have to take care of the baby. 
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:icondragonofevil:
DragonOfEvil Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Did I not say I would give her the choice to adopt? Please read my comment again. Most that is why I wouldn't let her keep it. I wouldn't DARE force or guilt trip her into getting an abortion! That's too cruel! As a parent you should think about what's best for your child and leave your feelings out of it as much as possible. If getting an abortion is the best option for you child (rather its social or health related) then as a good parent you should allow her to get one. I understand that your pro-life, But if she doesn't want to give birth to it, it would only be cruel for you to force her to birth it against her will. Just to be clear I'm not a parent nor am I in a relationship. I'm not even remotely interested in either of those. I'm just saying that's what I'd do. Please try to understand where I'm coming from.
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grievousfan Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Student General Artist
Interesting you should call this "Pro-Choice", when you've outlined exactly what Pro-Choice is not.

I'd go so far as to label her friends and family who disapproved of her pregnancy as "Anti-Choice", because they falsely believe their opinions override the wishes of a "slut". Yes, it was her choice to have sex, and it was also her choice to keep the baby. That is "Pro-Choice"; choosing what you think is best for you personally (and your baby), despite the scorn you may face from others.

And let me just finish by saying this is a well-written piece with compelling (albeit depressing) subject matter, and that I think it's very deserving of the DD :clap:
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:iconyamiga:
Yamiga Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Student Writer
In the end, she did have the choice, whether or not to get the abortion or not. So it was, in fact her choice. But I do see where you are coming from, I just believe that she allowed the scorn from others to craft her choice.

Thank you so much for your comments and feed back! 
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lidsworth Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
She never had to get the abortion, in the end, it was her choice to get it. There were places that could help her if she reached out, but in the end, so in the end, it was all about her choice, no matter how she wanted to look at it. 
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grievousfan Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Student General Artist
I would hardly say she had a choice in this scenario. She was pressured into making the "choice" to get an abortion, because her friends and family were treating her like a criminal for wanting to keep the baby. Even if she had gone to seek help, it clearly wouldn't have changed her family and friends' opinions of her.

Making a choice of your own free will and being pressured into that "choice" are two very different things :I
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anivaangel Featured By Owner Aug 31, 2014
Great poem. Forced abortions are far too common. People need to know the truth and this poem shows that. Thank you.
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:iconyamiga:
Yamiga Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Student Writer
Thank you! And you're welcome! 
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WintersRead Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2014  Student Photographer
I support this view.
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